The Natural Disaster Happening in People’s Lives Every Day

Don’t Let Yesterday Use Too Much of Today – Indian Proverb

Although I’m someone who has a significant presence in life, I don’t want you to think I’ve got it all figured it out. Recently, I was asked why I’m so tough on leaders. I responded that I’ve been there. I was the founder and CEO of a major nonprofit, which I grew to a large organization. Today, I’m the founder and chief executive officer of three social enterprises.

Here’s what I’ve learned in doing my work and in life: there’s a natural disaster happening in someone’s life every day. You may meet someone in your work day and they will smile and give you the energy that gives you the reason to think all is well with them–but that’s far from the case. For better or worse, that’s life. And, professionals know that the job must and will be done and they’ve got an important part to play. So, they put aside whatever they’re suffering and get to work.

Another reason why I give people in general a hard time and expect so much is that Americans have so much. We are so wealthy in money, time, experience and skills compared to so many around the world. However, I’m not discounting the suffering in our country. I’m not saying that people who are dealing with poverty, disease, divorce, death or whatever else are not entitled to feel and experience their pain. Again, there’s a natural disaster happening in people’s lives each and every day. I get it and understand.

But, what I am trying to highlight here is that as a society we try to avoid the “drama.” We even have a wealth of space and boundaries.

That’s not okay.

Sometimes I find there’s general disinterest in understanding the suffering of others in our lives. People don’t want to get their hands dirty, and they’d rather be too busy with their problems than pause for a moment and help someone else carry a load a few feet.

I think in many ways that Americans may be the ones in need. No, I’m not remotely talking about the political landscape. Enough about that! What I am saying is that many of us have beautiful houses, comfortable homes, plenty to eat, nice cars and perhaps some fancy toys. Just because all appearances lead us to think “everything’s great,” be aware that there are people in your life, right now, going through something terrible.

It’s not okay not to take a moment when someone looks to you or pauses when you ask them how they’re doing, to get your hands a little dirty in the “drama.”

We’re on this planet for a finite number of days. If those days are mere hours or strung together to equate to many years, it’s still a limited number of days. That means most of us have an opportunity to make a difference in someone’s life.

Never underestimate what a smile toward a stranger or inviting a colleague to lunch can mean in the moment and the broader context of their lives.

We each have the capacity to make a difference, however large or small, in someone’s life.

Be aware that every day we are making many decisions. By our actions, we make a decision to intercede or ignore a situation of a fellow human being, if we feel that perhaps someone else can deal with it.

Make no mistake; you have power in your life to make a difference and help someone through the natural disaster that’s happening in their lives. It’s your choice whether you will choose to get your hands a little dirty or ignore it.

Author of “Not Your Father’s Charity: Grip & Rip Leadership for Social Impact” – Free Digital Download at

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Pay-What-It-Takes Philanthropy Is Beginning to Take Root

Finally, it seems that the insanity around the “nonprofit starvation cycle” is coming to an end. For those of you who may be new to the world of philanthropy, the nonprofit starvation cycle happens when donors have unrealistic-and absurd-expectations regarding the costs of running an organization. For a long time, donors have been restricting their money to direct program costs. Apparently, it’s been acceptable for a business to have operating expenses, but not for a nonprofit. However, donors have missed the point. Nonprofits are a business. They’re simply a tax-exempt business.

This downward expense pressure from donors has caused the following situations:

  • There’s been a rigid doctrine by funders to place most, or all, nonprofits-no matter what’s happening in the organization-in a 15 percent straight jacket on expenses. In reality, this is an arbitrary number. When charities are in the midst of a capital campaign or are expanding their organization so they can grow to scale, they’re expenses rise as they’re making capital investments.
  • Some nonprofits claim to have as little as 5 percent or even zero costs. These rates of expenditure are simply not credible or realistic. And, it’s perpetuated the delusion that nonprofits should be operating with little to no overhead.
  • Nonprofit executives have had to, essentially, fudge the numbers. Since it’s not realistic to run an organization with little or zero expenses-unless it’s wholly volunteer-driven (and even then it’s a tough case)-charity directors have sought clever ways to bury operating expenses in program costs. The creative reporting, in turn, distorts program ratios.

I’m happy to report that the push-back that’s happening in the industry against this impossible and arbitrary reality is starting to change the conversation.In the Stanford Social Innovation Review, philanthropy’s biggest funders are saying this has to change, and there’s been a grave injustice. By the way, the nonprofit starvation cycle is one of the reasons why the majority of charities remain small and can’t grow. They’re unable to get the operational investment capital to develop.

According to an SSIR Summer 2016 article, leading philanthropists are looking to move from the nonprofit starvation cycle to “pay-what-it-takes” philanthropy. This model is, “a flexible approach grounded in real costs that would replace the rigid 15 percent cap on overhead reimbursements followed by most major foundations.”

Pay-what-it-takes is dependent on transparent and clear reporting regarding actual program costs. And, more importantly, it shifts the dialogue from the actual program to the impact any given program and nonprofit are making.

In the SSIR article, the president of the Ford Foundation, Darren Walker, said, “All of us in the nonprofit ecosystem are party to a charade with terrible consequences-what we might call the ‘overhead fiction.'” To help alleviate and begin to adequately address the issue, last year the Ford Foundation doubled the rate it allowed nonprofits to report for overhead and administration.

The Bridgespan Group published a report that found the following at 20 leading nonprofit organizations they studied, “We discovered that indirect costs make up a much larger percentage of a nonprofit’s total costs than is widely understood. Of the nonprofits we surveyed, indirect costs made up between 21 percent and 89 percent of direct costs. The median indirect cost rate for all 20 nonprofits was 40 percent, nearly three times the 15 percent overhead rate that most foundations provide. To be clear: Higher or lower is neither better nor worse. These figures are not measures of either effectiveness or efficiency. Rather, they reflect the mix of direct and indirect costs required to deliver impact.”

I’ve been a social entrepreneur for a long time, and one of the biggest problems I believe the nonprofit sector has faced is the lunacy of having to report 15 percent or less operating costs, no matter what was happening in the organization. We’ve done damage to the sector because most charities haven’t been able to grow or develop. Donors have left many in an unsustainable position. We’ve also created a situation where there’s “creative” reporting, which damages the credibility of nonprofits. You have to wonder why so many people in the general public believe nonprofits are not to be trusted. It’s one of the reasons that charities aren’t viewed in a positive light.

I’m glad that the loud voices agitating for change are being heard. We have all the tools we need to eradicate poverty, hunger, and some diseases. The only way to make that happen is to be committed to operating in reality and move away from obscure and creative reporting.

Author of “Not Your Father’s Charity: Grip & Rip Leadership for Social Impact” – Free Digital Download at

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Your Relationship With Donors Is a Two-Way Street

Not too long ago I was speaking to a director of development at a school. Susan was excited because she had been working for two years trying to get her principal and the board started on a strategic plan. As any good fundraiser knows, a good strategic plan helps clarify fundraising goals and priorities.

I asked Susan if they had involved donors outside of the board. It’s a good idea to get thoughts that go outside of the bubble board members and staff can sometimes get into. She said that they hadn’t reached out to people beyond the board.

Why You Should Survey Your Donors

I suggested to Susan that if it wasn’t too late, it might serve them well to survey major and general gift donors. It’s important to see outside of your own universe. At my social enterprise, we’re always surveying people who partner with us as well as those who don’t. We want to know everything about what we’re doing right and how we can continually improve.

All of that information is vital to help us know what our fundraising partners and prospects want to see. It assists us in refining our message and giving them what they need.

Information is a Two-Way Street

Today’s donors are much more sophisticated than they were even a decade ago. Of course, the vast amounts of information we have available at our fingertips has helped this happen. Major donors have been doing their due diligence on organizations for years and providing feedback, but smaller donors are also looking to see if the causes they support are demonstrating impact. There’s also a much deeper dialogue happening with general gift donors. We’ve all seen how relationships on social media have helped causes around the world raise money.

Information has become a two-way street. The first thing schools, churches, civic groups or charities should do is demonstrate and speak about their impact. This helps your donors understand how you’re doing. It provides them information and something to react to when you ask them for their insights.

  • Donors want to see robust measurements. They’re looking for more than simply qualitative information. They want to know cold, hard facts about your organization.
  • Donors want to see that charities are not doing the same old thing. They’re looking for innovators.
  • Donors want to support nonprofits that are transparent.
  • Donors are looking for your organization to give them the information wherever and whenever they want to see it. Charities can no longer rely on providing information on their schedule. They have to be everywhere their donors are, such as social media, events, etc.

When you build a solid two-way relationship with donors, you can then receive more concrete and pertinent information from them. The relationship should go beyond the superficial and provide both parties a meaningful dialogue.

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How Nonprofits Can Overcome the Sustainability Challenge

I’ve been talking about it for years. Nonprofits are great, but I think people who begin or work for these organizations need to understand two things:

  1. Nonprofits are a business. The fundamental difference between a for-profit business and nonprofit is that nonprofits are tax exempt.
  2. You can’t start or continue an organization on a wish and a prayer. Sustainability is crucial to being able to accomplish your mission.

Nonprofit Business ModelOne of the things I always remind people about with nonprofits is that the 501(c)(3) designation is for taxes. I think a lot of individuals in the social sector, such as people who volunteer, donate or even work for nonprofits, sometimes have a misunderstanding about a nonprofit business model.

Unlike a for-profit business which takes its profits and disburses it to its shareholders (even small businesses), a nonprofit “reinvests” it back into the nonprofit. Any surplus revenue is supposed to go toward the mission; meaning, it’s okay for nonprofits to make more revenue than their operating expenses. I think that’s a point that sometimes gets lost on people, especially board members. Nonprofits can make a profit, but when they do, it has to go back to the social cause. We’ve got to stop starving nonprofits.

The primary thing to remember is that a “nonprofit” status is an IRS tax exemption given to the organization so it can accomplish its social mission.

Sustainability Has to be a Concern

I’ve been a businessman for a long time and even as a social entrepreneur, I’m always looking at sustainability. I have the opportunity to work with nonprofits each day, and when I speak to some executive directors, they’re focused on the mission, they complain about not having enough money (always), but they don’t plan for sustainability. Or, they’ll tell me that they keep on trying to get the board to work on a sustainability plan, but it just doesn’t happen.

Sustainability is not something that comes out of nowhere. For any for-profit or nonprofit endeavor, there’s got to be planning to become sustainable. One of the reasons I think there’s so much churn of professional fundraisers is because there are unrealistic expectations. Fundraisers aren’t magicians, and they don’t come to organizations carrying a contact list of high-end donors that will rain dollar bills on nonprofits. They don’t shop around their contacts, and if they did, they’d be going against the ethical principles of the Association of Fundraising Professionals.

Strategies to Become Sustainable

  1. Operate your nonprofit business well. Let’s face it; there are differences between nonprofits and for-profit businesses. The biggest contrast between is that profit is not the motivating factor for nonprofits-social change is the core of the work. However, executing all the work should come from a position of excellence. Programs, operations, and financial sustainability should always be viewed from a lens that seeks to be the absolute best.
  2. Stop chasing money. It may be counterintuitive, but you have to be smart about the money you’re chasing. You can’t be all things to all people and all donors. That means you have to be smart about how to raise funds. Create a development plan about who you’re going to approach and why. Are donor interests and past giving history aligned with your work? If not, look elsewhere. It takes too much time and effort to raise money. Be smart in how you approach the task.
  3. Not your father’s charity. Times have changed. You don’t want to think and run your charity with 20th Century thinking. Those days are done. Organizations that are growing and becoming sustainable are those that are adapting to change, innovating and moving with the times. Change happens at an unprecedented pace these days. We’re in a new era, and it’s important to be flexible and adapt to the new environment.

Author of “Not Your Father’s Charity: Grip & Rip Leadership for Social Impact” – Free Digital Download at

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7 Ways to Use Social Media to Advance Your Career

In 2015, CareerBuilder did their annual social media survey and found that 35 percent of hiring managers were less likely to interview a candidate if they couldn’t find them online. And since social media is a part of most of our lives, you have to assume that will only increase in the years ahead, especially as more Millennials become managers.

What follows are some tips and strategies to help you advance your career with social media.

  1. Change Happens

As you have career successes, make sure to post them across your social media platforms, and of course, certainly on LinkedIn. I’ve seen people on my feeds show their day-to-day work successes. There’s no need for a heavy sell. No one wants that, and it’s a quick turn-off; just post some fun stuff on something cool. Additionally, if you move to a new position or get promoted, make sure all of your social media profiles are updated.

  1. Grow Your Network

Social media is social networking. Social networking by definition means you have to be social. Engage with people. Drop your contacts an email now and then to check in or ask them for some career advice. Keep your contacts always warm. I am a huge believer in picking up the phone, so make it a point to go through your social media friends and connect with people. You never know who has the next opportunity for you.

  1. Use Your Real Name

Nicknames are fine, and I know that many people use them on social media, but if you’re looking to advance your career, make it a point to have an account using your real name so a potential hiring manager can find you. Some people have two accounts within their social media, especially Facebook (which by the way doesn’t look favorably on it, but it can be done). If you want to use a nickname and spend time sharing your political views, keep that account for your close friends and family. Use your real name for posting content any employer doing a search using your name can find.

  1. Be True to You

Companies are looking to hire people who align with their business culture. So, when you’re using a profile picture, make it a point to let your personality shine through. Smile and look relaxed. If you’re an artist or looking to work in a cool start-up, look the part in your social media profile. Be who you are in your picture, or at least show your dynamic business side.

  1. Follow Company Pages

An excellent way to learn more about companies or organizations you might want to work for is to follow their pages. And, if there’s a business of particular interest to you-comment and engage with people within the organization. Show your expertise in your particular field. When you post comments, make sure they’re thoughtful. Keep doing it consistently, and people will notice it within the company and outside of it.

  1. #Jobs

Unfortunately, social media is full of spam. But you can still use #jobs with another keyword to find opportunities. You’ll have to do some sifting, but you’re able to find thoughts leaders in the field at the very least, if not a job posting.

  1. Join Groups

Social media has broken down walls and borders. Use it to meet people. Participate in a group in your particular industry or one that you want to enter. You don’t need more than a handful of groups. Make sure they’re large or active. After you join, post and comment within the group. It doesn’t take long for people within the group to notice who the thought leaders are (including you) and you’ll be getting invitations to connect and chat offline.

Author of “Not Your Father’s Charity: Be Bold, Dominate and Succeed in Marketing For Today’s Digital World On A Limited Budget” – Free Digital Download at

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Massage in Bucharest

Recognize it! You’re busy! And so must be! That’s what life is like! But you want more than that, you want to do more for yourself and massage can help. Because massage makes more than a simple relaxation of the mind and body. It keeps your body in shape and gives you enough energy to make you enjoy a longer life better than you do it today.

Massage releases stress. At the moment, stress is a universal evil. Every time you are late, every time you avoid a car in traffic, every time you have trouble working, stress is doing his job. Each time adrenaline increases heart rate and cortisone levels and organs respond to the measure. You will be in a state of nerves and constant agitation.
When there is no release of stress, serious problems such as an upset stomach, hypertension, sleep disturbances, chest pain, or existing illness may worsen.

Some of the changes that may occur are: Anxiety, lack of concentration, depression, permanent fatigue, muscle or bone pain, sexual dysfunction, excessive sleep or insomnia

All these stress-related problems can be diminished and some can be totally eliminated by massage. The researchers concluded that a massage session can lower heart rate and blood pressure, relax your muscles and increase endorphin production. The massage also releases serotonin and dopamine and the result is a general relaxation, both physical and mental.
Our body care must be at the top of the priorities.
By adding the massage to your routine you will look much better and you will be much healthier and relaxed. Massage can improve your vitality and mood. Massage can prepare for a long and beautiful life.

Our masseuses personalize each massage session according to the needs of the individual.
Our massage parlors offer a variety of relaxation styles and techniques to help you. Apart from relaxing, massage can be a powerful ally in reducing pain, increasing energy levels, improving mental and physical performance

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After a massage session, you will see how the mental prospects are enriched, the body allows easier handling, better pressure resistance, relaxation and mental alertness, calm and creative thinking.
When you have the impression or force yourself to stay straight, your body is not actually aligned properly. Not only does the posture look bad, but it forces some of the muscles to go muddy all day, while others become weaker. After a long time, the incorrect position may cause other drops. For example, internal organs press on what affects digestion, breathing ability is also diminished, which means that much less blood and oxygen reaches the brain and hence all sorts of other complications.

Massage allows you to return your body to the track. Allowing the body to make healthy and accurate movements is one of the greatest benefits of massage. Massage can relax and restore muscles injured by bad posture, allowing the body to position itself in a natural, painless position.
Apart from posture, there is also anxiety. One of the signs of anxiety and stress can also be heavy breathing. When the body begins to breathe too little and deeply instead of breathing at a natural rithm, it is impossible for one to relax. One reason may also be that the chest muscles and the abdomen get tightened and the air gets harder.

Massage plays an important role in learning the body how to relax and how to improve breathing. Respiratory problems such as allergies, sinuses, asthma or bronchitis are a group of conditions that can benefit from massage. In fact, massage can have a positive impact on respiratory function.

Many of the muscles in the front and back of the upper part of the body are breathing accessory. When these muscles are tight and shorten they can block normal breathing and interrupt effective breathing natural rithm. Massage techniques for stretching and relaxing these muscles improves breathing function and breathability. Massage leads to an opening of the chest as well as structural alignment and nerve dilatation that are required for optimal pulmonary function. A good way to treat respiratory problems with massage is the taping made in Swedish massage. When done on the back, along with vibrations, it can detach the mucus from the lungs and can clean the airways for better later function.

Massage not only relaxes muscles, but helps people become aware of daily stress levels. Once the body recognizes what really means relaxation, the mind can rest easily relax before the stress becomes cornice and harmful. This will help you enjoy a balanced life. Massage controls breathing, allows the mind to re-create relaxation before the occurrence of chronic and harmful stress and increases the level of energy.